When the temperature starts to drop below 0 (32 for you Americans), the question always enters my mind. Why do I still live here? In an age when moving is so easily facilitated by air planes and moving companies, and corporations have head offices all around the world, why do I choose to stay in Canada? The idea of transporting myself to somewhere warmer permanently is so attractive and exciting. And yet here I still am, in the same city, for 40 something years. My kids are grown and don't need me (just my bank card) and I now have the freedom to go where I want to. So out comes the notepad to compile my list of pros and cons.
Winter, definitely con. I hate to shovel or drive in snow. Spring, summer, fall, pro. The change of seasons is such a vibrant and renewing experience. I would definitely miss weekend getaways in the Muskokas. Cost of living, con. Why even when our dollar stands at par with the Benjamin can I drive across the border and find the same priced item for less? Rate of pay, benefits, health care, pro, pro, pro. No where else could my husband and I move and be able to get the same pay and all our benefits plus free health care. Believe me, at least once a year, we look at job boards down south. No job even comes close. And of course the big one-family, pro and con depending on the day. With our parents aging and needing more assistance, it's nice to be living close to them in case of emergencies. I know the crisis my sister in England always feels when something happens and she has to decide if the situation warrants a flight across the pond.
And there it is, as usual, for now, it's best to stay put. When it's time to retire, I am hoping my list shows me otherwise but I think I could never permanently leave. Like my American husband says "you're so Canadian" and I guess I always will be but one day I hope to be a snowbird, at the very least.
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